Whatever we may do in the present, when we come across situations that are hard to deal with, we always seem to blame the past. When we haven't been raised by our own parents, that we somehow feel disconnected with those who are raised by their own parents or whenever we just came out of an abused/horrible/icky relationship, we can't seem to find love that easily and built up this invisible wall around us. But why so? that's the hard question to answer, because we are led to believe that everything we go through is way harder than it actually really is.
And though it might be hard to believe that our problems don't need to effect our present, it is the truth.
We have to see it as a sort of circle of negativity we're pulled in, whenever we experience negative things. We may not see this circle, but it's what we feel inside of us. But we have got to know, that these are all illusions.
How can we be genuinely happy if we keep believing in these illusions, Men made us believe?
We have got to dig deep,
no excuses,
no keep turning back into the past,
no excuses,
it's about our own lives.
our own happiness, that is all.
Because we are not held back by the love we didn't recieve in the past, but we are held back by the love we are not willing to recieve in the present.
cylia loves smilesP.s. I wish you all a very, very good and loving New Year 2009! Make sure you make a lovely wish or commitment to yourself at the counting! To better ourselves.
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