We want peace in our minds and we want to feel free in our own life.. but where to begin?
How much we want people to think and understand things the way we think and understand them, we can't change people. We can have influence on other people, but in the end, it's the choice of another. We can only work on ourselves and that's where we have to begin. It's to start on ourselves than to be all overwhelemd by the emotions or actions of other people. Start with yourself.
Begin a day where you try to observe everything you are doing and how this effects others. If we are happy with ourselves, we can be happy for others. If we are not happy with ourselves, it's hard to be happy for others.
Another tip: you can also start a conversation with a mirror (I know, sounds totally out of place), and you will see yourself in a different light. You can also record yourself while having a conversation with a camera and see the results afterwards. It's quite funny, try it.
So before we judge, we need to think about ourselves first.
It's important to get to know ourselves more, to eventually know how to genuinely be happy for someone else.
cylia loves smiles
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