Today, I'm going to write my little words based on this sentence: Don't take anything personal.
In the world we are living in right now, it's hard to avoid the fear that's among us. And when someone has to say something to you, that might hurt a bit or a lot, it can sometimes be a little overwhelming.. But that's where we have to draw a line!
When we do not take things personal, we can easily feel free from the fear and be happy with whatever, whenever.
When people say bad things about us and we take it personal, we are giving into the poison that person is trying to poison us with.
When we take it personal, we are not free and we will be far away from feeling happy with our own life.
When someone says to me: "Cylia, you are so ugly it hurts my eyes," or "Cylia, you can't do anything right, you are a piece of worthless shit.", I will not take this personal, because I know, it does not say anything about me. Because I know the things that person just said to me, says nothing about me, but says something about that person. That person is poisened by his/her own behaviour.
Even when people say good things about me, I do not take it personal. It doesn't mean you can't be happy with the lovely comments, but it's about the art of feeling completely happy about yourself without bad or good comments.
We know we are strong, we know we can make it, we know we are wonderful, we know we can reach the impossible, we know it all. And most of all, we know we are not weak.
The person who says bad things about you is trying to poison you and is hoping you'll give in to this. But we know we are not weak, so we will not give in and we will not take over the ugly poison, that person may have spread, because we know that we are strong.
you are so, so worth it!
cylia loves smiles
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