When you just feel like giving up.. Remember your goals for this year!
When we experience something negative in life, we are mostly put in circumstances we just somehow can't let go off. But, what's to be remembered is that we do not need to blame the circumstances.. We, as human beings, are extremely fragile: for either emotional damage or physical damage. And as we are sucked in a world image of a perfect couple, a perfect home, a perfect life and this and that, we, as very fragile human beings, can be totally off guard by this all.
Things get even more complicated, when we try to compare ourselves to others to make us look better. For example: someone is completely confused about another someone who can't seem to get out of a dilemma. That's because if we look at others, we usually do not oversee the details, but when we look at ourselves, we oversee so many important details. it's kind of ridiculous.
And why? It's because our pride and ego can be in the way of our real view of life. We need to understand that the negative thoughts in our minds are nothing but an illusion. And as we live in a world that's full of illusions, we then start to believe in these. We think we know.. but we have no idea..
I would like to ask a lot of people if they are genuinely happy, because most of the people are not.
and that makes my heart just crush.
Don't you just understand how beautiful you really are?
I would love to ask a whole bunch of people if they are completely themselves, whenever they walk on the streets.
Don't we just get all tired of being so tense all the time?
Don't we just get all tired of constant wanting to know what others think of us?
Don't we just get all tired of being someone we are actually not?
We CAN be ourselves,
We CAN be beautiful and cool at the same time without being someone we are not,
We CAN be popular without being rude or slightly arrogant,
We CAN put on our genuine smiley faces without hiding it.
you are so wonderful..
Maybe even start every morning, looking into the mirror and say: 'I am beautiful.'
or whatever secret you have, go to a painful past, for a weight that has to be lifted up.
(think of: 'I can be cool without my mp3 on', 'I am beautiful without make-up', 'I am sexy.')
And as we think of people in the very past, who had no Television, who had no Computer, who had no toilet in their own home or think of people who have very little money, who have experienced a genocide in Rwanda, who have experienced very horrific things and then think of your own situation. What's the fuss about? We really should be ashamed of how much we complain everyday, and even with all the money in the world or not even money, but all the opportunities in the world we still manage to play the victim role. It's sad.
We are never, never doomed to any icky situation you may caught yourself in. These are just circumstances we experience, and some circumstances may not come in handy at all, and some do, but then again, most of the circumstances never come in handy. It's always this or that to blame. We always seem to blame something or someone else. 'Oh, it was my sister who didn't come on time,' 'No, I couldn't run fast because my pants were wet,' 'I wasn't ready, because my dad forgot my lucky teddybear.'
We are eventually the ones, who will make our own decision. Do not blame the circumstance.
We get to choose in our lives, where we have to actually choose between the good and the bad.
And yes, we do mostly choose the bad one.
Why? It's because we live in fear all the time. We let ourselves be controlled by our fear and this world of media makes us feel even more pushed.
And sure we, as fragile human beings, make mistakes. We all do.
but that's alright, as long as you don't dwell on your mistakes and faults.
Do not dwell on your negativity: what's past is past.
It doesn't mean we can't think about the past, but don't over do it.
The only thing that's important about the past is the love you've been given and the love you've given. The negative part of our past: is to be forgiven.
And more about the forgiving part: mostly, we do not need to forgive another person, but we forget, that the person we need to forgive the most: is ourselves.
We tend to forget ourselves more than we forget others.
So begin to work on yourself and grow from there.
to know we are worth it,
to know we are more loved than we will ever know,
to know we are as equal as everybody else,
to know we are love.
love one another, and be there for everyone else, but never forget: be there for yourself also.
Nothing is harder than to love someone, when you do not even loved yourself first.
So the next time you sit in a train, waiting in a line or are waiting somewhere else do not feel uncomfortable: we are one, and we are so equal, if only we would know this. We are not strangers from eachothers. We do not divide people into groups or stereotypes, how blind can we be? We are again, then, living in an illusion.
It's really funny to see, when people play a victim role, when there's really no need to. It's kind of making a little fool out of yourself. Waste of our energy. And it's somehow so funny to see, when people are completely isolated in this illusion of things Men created. Don't make a fool out of yourself, because you are so much better than that.
Be free, once again.
Look at that picture when you were six..
where's that innocence? where did you go?
Do not be a victim of this society,
choose to be a hero,
choose to be happy.
It's not hard.. we just make it hard..
cylia loves smiles
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