When we are just either not in the mood or just aren't happy at a certain moment and we see people smiling (at us) or being genuinely happy around us.. it just sometimes makes us feel a little bit icky.
But why can't we just be happy for those (strangers)? Is there some sort of constant rivalry we're in? Is it the fear of being.. what? Being alone? Not loved? Not be like the 'perfect' image the media has set for us? There should not be any fear for these.
Lets lay it down a little bit more practical..
whenever we even go out of our own home, we make sure our outfits, hair and make-up are either picture perfect or atleast presentable to others.
Without showing us to the outside world, we are already giving ourselves so much anxiety to be like a certain image or else we feel totally out of place.
Because what are we in the end.. with all the clothes, money, fake this and fake that?
material things will eventually slip away..
so lets built up an inner strength that'll last forever.
and if we go to school/work, especially at school, there will always be this constant tension between who's prettier than who? At school there will be things done (besides schoolwork) just because some of us look a certain way.. Why? Is he/she prettier than him/her? Why? does she have more blond hair, bigger boobs and more expensive clothes than you? Does he have a six pack, better hair, bigger mouth and has it going on with the ladies? Why is this intimidating to some of us? These people who are, according to the media, the perfect people, should not be intimidating to us at all. Just like famous people, they are just people, like us.
We are led to believe that whatever the media says to us is the right thing to do or the right way to look: NO, not at all. get this outta your head, missy/mister. There is way more that meets the eye to us and to the world itself. When we see the bigger picture and come to a point where we will embrace the love and the hate thats surrounding us, we will shine so bright: absolutely breathtaking. But it's a choice, God gave us choices, it's eventually up to you.
Ive said it so many times and I say it again: Love is the answer. Such a little word, but has so much great, beautiful consequences.
we can whine about the stupidest and smallest things.. really, so much love to embrace.. why do we keep embracing the bad and the fears we have in the back of our minds? When we experience negativity.. we must not be overwhelmed by it.. we will be a true winner when we will not for even the slightest second think about giving up and knowing that going through our struggles will give us ultimate strength.
if we don't change.. we will not grow.. and that means we are standing still.. and that means things will not change.. and if we are not growing, we are not really living our lives.
whatever you are going through, how weird people may respond to things, how fast circumstances might change, how fearful we might live our lives.. do not forget that:
you are so special.. so unqiue.. you can reach the impossible.. you are so, so worth it!
cylia loves smiles
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